![]() ![]() Sharks can escalate emotions and create barriers easily. The struggles are becoming too pushy, tactless, and hurting peoples’ feelings. ![]() A shark is a leader that can confront bullies. The strength of this style is the ability to be strong, courageous, and bring a conflict out in the open quickly. ![]() Secretly, they tend to have a low self-esteem and use likability from others as a way to build their own self-confidence. The can enable others by not allowing them to face and wrestle with conflict. The struggle of this style is that a teddy bear may be taken advantage of, becoming a doormat. They will accept blame just to bring peace to angry situations. How could you be mad at them? They want and need harmony. The strength of this style is how likeable and lovable this person is in most situations. Major conflict tends to grow worse when it isn’t addressed. The struggle with this style is the tendency to minimize, deny, and avoid conflict altogether. They are calm on the outside and help de-escalate emotions in conflict. The strength of this style is that this person can easily look past conflicts and realizes most conflicts will solve themselves. Here are some brief thoughts on the strengths and struggles of the 5 styles of dealing with conflict, adapted from Johnson, 1981. How we deal with our spouse at home is likely to be different than how we deal with our boss in the workplace. Most of us use a variety of styles depending on the person, the situation and our stress level. ![]()
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